“Each
of us is a being in himself and a being in society, each of us needs to
understand himself and understand others, take care of others and be taken care
of himself.” ~Haniel Long
Social
Safety and Social Responsibility
We all understand physical safety as the need to
protect one’s body from harm. We can close our eyes and picture a very similar
environment. While we may differ some, we have common ground on which to
communicate. I wonder if that is
true when we talk about being socially safe at Holiday Park. What does that
mean for our students? What does that mean for our staff? What does that mean
for our community? Let’s close our eyes and visualize this. Umm… a little bit
hard to do, right? Let’s see if we can start to create a path to common ground
and common language surrounding social safety.
What is social responsibility? Social safety?
Social learning? Simple definition of social:
·
relating
to or involving activities in which people spend time talking to each other or
doing enjoyable things with each other
·
liking
to be with and talk to people: happy to be with people
·
of
or relating to people or society in general
Holiday
Park is a living social organization. We can only do our work socially. We
cannot work in isolation or alone. Therefore, we have to consider our social
responsibility, safety, and learning as a fundamental component of our organization. It is crucial to the
success of our school that we find common ground, commit to our social
responsibilities, and expect the same from each of us here at Holiday Park.
Social
responsibility, as related to our school, means that every person
within Holiday Park behave ethically and with sensitivity toward each other,
the learning environment, and our commitments toward our mission and
vision. We are expected to have a positive impact on our organization and act
in accordance with the norms of right and wrong.
Each of us has a social
responsibility that includes active engagement towards the everyday success of
the entire school. Doing the right thing, everyday, is the goal. That being
said, social responsibility also means we refrain from acting or behaving
negatively toward the organization as a whole. Each of us taking an active
stance when other members of the organization are engaging in harmful actions,
behaviors, or words is the only way we will move forward and ensure our organization is socially
safe. The only way we will each take an active stance, quite simply, is to just do it. If we continue to stay silent, agree, and look the other way, we are not being
socially responsible within the organization. We need to be able to hold high
standards for each other and then hold each other accountable for them.
So what does all of this mean to us? For
me, this means acting in ways that would fall within what our society would
accept as ethical, sensitive, and the right thing to do. This can be
challenging at times. We are human, and at times our amygdala takes over, and
our brains get hijacked. This will happen. With grace we reflect, try to make
restitution, recognize the trigger, make a plan to overcome this trigger, work
the plan, and get better at handling our own emotions.
According to research there are three types of people when it
comes to individual social responsibility:
1.
Two-thirds of U.S. adults have “Good
Intentions” – they believe that social responsibility is a good idea, and they
do what they can in terms of being engaged, but they do not sacrifice huge
amounts of time or money.
2.
At the top end of the spectrum, 8 percent
of U.S. adults “Practice What They Preach” and for this group, individual, as
well as corporate, social responsibility is extremely important.
3.
One-quarter of U.S. adults, however, follow
a philosophy of “To Thine Own Self Be True” and, for this group, social
responsibility has little consequence in their lives.
We
must be number 1’s at a minimum. Our students, their families, and this
community depend on it. We can strive to become number 2’s together and support
each other along the way. We cannot accept or allow number 3’s in this
organization. It is too harmful to the staff and the ethical ramifications for
our community are too great.
We
need to work together to create a common understanding of our social norms
together. This should include:
Verbal communication
Non-verbal
communication
Commitment to expectations
Commitment to open
communication
Active engagement
Willingness to help
Willingness to act
And any
other actions and/or behaviors that fit within this category.
This
week, my goal towards my social responsibility at Holiday Park is to have more
control over my non-verbal reactions. I will not roll my eyes, look away from,
or disengage when I am speaking with anyone at Holiday Park.
Would
you like to be the new owner of the passes below? They are looking for a
classroom to live in. The first staff member to share their goal this week
toward social responsibility wins!
I will commit to open communication with my team and my classes.
ReplyDeleteI will commit to ensuring all my comments are purposeful and positive.
ReplyDeleteI will commit to practicing Boys Town interactions during stressful classroom situations.
ReplyDeleteI will commit to being there for students and staff that may need support.
ReplyDeleteI will commit to open communication with the staff or admin with questions or concerns.
ReplyDeleteI will commit to greeting every staff member, student, and family member with a smiling face.
ReplyDelete